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Dating & Romance Scams

Online connections can feel real — but scammers exploit trust to steal money and personal details.

Overview

Dating and romance scams are among the most common and emotionally damaging online frauds today. In these schemes, a scammer creates a fake identity on dating apps or social media to build trust and emotional connection with a victim. Once that trust is established, the scammer typically starts asking for money, often through complex stories about emergencies, travel, or investment opportunities.

Unlike legitimate relationships, romance scams are designed to exploit emotions and extract funds — sometimes over weeks or months.

How This Scam Operates

Romance scammers are skilled at creating believable backstories and profiles. They often:

  • Use stolen photos or fabricated personal details

  • Contact victims through dating sites, apps, or social media

  • Express strong feelings quickly to shorten emotional distance

  • Move communication off the original platform

  • Ask for financial help, sometimes repeatedly, often with changing excuses

Many fraudsters claim to be working abroad, in the military, or involved in business ventures that “temporarily” prevent in‑person meetings, making it easier to justify needing money.

What Scammers Try to Do

Some of the tactics romance scammers use include:

  • Appearing overly affectionate or eager to commit early on

  • Asking for money for travel, medical emergencies, legal fees, or visas

  • Requesting funds via wire transfer, gift cards, or cryptocurrency

  • Encouraging you to hide the relationship or isolate from friends/family

  • Claiming crises that require urgent financial help

No matter how convincing the story, never send money to someone you have never met in person.

Dating & Romance Scam Red Flags

Watch out for:

  • Profiles with only a few professional photos

  • People who profess love very quickly

  • Someone who avoids video calls or meeting in person

  • Requests for money for unexpected expenses

  • Excuses for not meeting face‑to‑face

  • Pressure to communicate off the dating app

  • Requests for financial information or banking details

Another key red flag is when the person tries to isolate you from friends or family — a common manipulation tactic.

Safeguarding Yourself in Online Relationships

To stay safe:

  • Never send money or gifts to someone you’ve never met in person

  • Take time getting to know someone before trusting them

  • Research photos using image search tools (reverse image search)

  • Keep conversations on the original dating platform as long as possible

  • Talk to friends or family about new online relationships

  • Be skeptical if someone moves communication to private channels too quickly

  • Be cautious with your personal information

Scammers are experts at emotional manipulation. Prioritizing safety and verification over urgency can protect you.

Steps to Take After a Romance Scam

If you suspect you’ve been targeted:

  1. Stop all communication immediately

  2. Save all messages, screenshots, and profile details

  3. Contact your bank or financial institution if you sent funds

  4. Report the profile to the dating site or app

  5. File a report with the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) or your local authority

Reporting the incident not only helps you, it may prevent others from becoming victims.

Get Help After a Dating or Romance Scam

Being deceived in a relationship — whether for money or personal data — can be devastating. You are not alone, and it is not your fault.

At YourScamReport.com, we offer a free, confidential consultation to help you understand what happened and explore possible next steps, including options for recovery support.